As the holidays approach and the end of another year, many people will have new ambitions for change and adopt resolutions for the new year.
This will be an opportunity for me to reflect on the past year and the dramatic changes that have taken place in my life that I have documented in previous articles.
In summary, the last year I went from wasting alcohol all the time and taking cocaine at least three times a week and wasting all my life savings …
… to get kicked out of shit (but win) a kickboxing contest, start a business and learn how to do it too:
I LOST MY JOB, MY LIFE SAVINGS AND ALMOST THE APARTMENT THAT I HIRED.
I remember one time in particular taking a shower and completely breaking the crying.
It soon became a habit. I don't know why, but being in the shower seemed to start crying.
I felt hopelessly isolated, abandoned and overcome with fear.
No income, short of money. I don't know how I would pay the rent.
I was in SERIOUS SH * T.
And when I looked up and around me, I realized that everyone around me was gone.
There was no one in sight.
I realized that, in truth, no one I was hanging out with was really f * ck.
IT WAS THE BEST THING EVER BEING ME.
It will look like a cliché. But I will say it anyway because it & # 39; s true;
It was when everything collapsed around me and I lost practically everything, that I finally realized who I was and what I was really capable.
I look back and realize it had to happen.
Perhaps the Universe played a role in this test.
I really feel that everything I had done before had to be totally destroyed in order for new foundations to be laid.
So how did I choose to answer?
At that time, it was time to take drastic action: a new man was built, with a new identity.
I consciously decided to transform myself into the person I wanted to be and I used a range of exercises and techniques to help rewire my brain in that person.
I asked myself
- What kind of person did I want to be?
- What did I want to represent / represent?
- How did I want to appear in life?
- If there was something totally out of my old character, but would be pretty badass if I did, what would it be?
As I started to feel results, I started to look at everything in myself;
- What else could I change?
- How can I develop?
- How else can I improve?
I share some of the things that I have changed in my life in the video below.
These are some of the things that have totally changed my life.
Some may seem obvious. Others not so much.
At the end of the video, I also share some of the techniques and resources that I have used to help me improve my mentality and maintain motivation and consistency.
Take a look at the video here for ideas and resources designed to help you make the changes you want to see in your life …