Unfortunately, men should take the initiative to start the relationship. Therefore, there are more men. But I do not think most people are not qualified to be husbands, as most people here suggest. Women find unattractive most men on dating sites because they are looking for Prince Charles. Once they reach the age of 40 and are still single, they find the same type of people on these sites very attractive, but too late, because of the age difference. It all depends on the expectations and the hope of winning the jackpot with the perfect spouse.